The idea of the perfect life, is not about, not struggling.
It is surviving the struggles of life, and fighting through them.
Limit the fighting of living through the bad, and finding the good.
Find your place in the journey that allows support to happen.
Supporting others in life is a great beginning to open your heart.
Begin by finding that which is disturbs you the most and help there.
That which is is truly disturbing to you, is usually the stuff that you hate about you.